Do you ever feel helpless? Something has happened and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it? Specifically if your friend is upset. You want to make things better, but really there’s nothing to do about. Maybe there’s nothing that you should do. You feel bad because you friend feels bad. Their agony turns into your agony because you can’t stand to see them this way. It tears you apart-(it tears ME apart) to see them this way. Why can’t this just be fixed. Why isn’t there someone to blame. Sometimes things just happen and it’s not really anyone’s fault. Things happen that you can’t believe that you are just finding out.
OR EVEN WORSE!!!!!!!!!!! Something happens to your friend and you can’t relate you the situation because it’s never happened to you before, but yet you are hurting because you don’t want to see your friend suffer. You know that you have to let time do the healing, yet you are still impatient and angry.
WHY ARE THINGS NOT ALWAYS AS THEY SEEM ON THE SUFACE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHY DO THESE MESSY SITUATIONS THAT PEOPLE DON’T TAKE TIME TO CAREFULLY LOOK AND MAKE A FALSE ASSUMPION HAPPEN TO US!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! In other words: Why do bad things happen to good people? OH YES!!!!!!! Here is the answer…BECAUSE IT’S APART OF LIFE THAT WE JUST CAN’T AVOID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YEAH I KNOW IT SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!
I wish I could end all the suffering in the world. Why do we have to be patient and wait for things to heal? Why is there such a thing as patience????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHY IS THERE SUCH A THING AS IMPATIENCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If were all just patient we would be patiently waiting without stressing out.
It’s bad enough that we suffer ourselves. We also suffer when we see the ones that we love most suffer. You almost wish you could suffer for them.